self discipline

Allowing Inner Discipline and Independence to Develop

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“It is our object to train the child for activity, for work, for doing good, and not for immobility or passivity. It would seem to me that children are very well disciplined indeed when they can all move around in a room in a useful, intelligent, and free fashion without doing anything rude or unmannerly.” (p. 54 para. 3)

Thoughts after reading: 3. Teaching Methods Employed in the Children’s Houses

Many wonder how discipline works in a Montessori Classroom. It is hard for many to imagine an environment in which allows the child so much freedom which also maintains a sense of order.  The environment  and the philosophy used in a Montessori classroom helps the child develop inner discipline.  They learn to find joy in their own accomplishment instead of seeking attention and rewards from the adult.

When the Montessori teacher intervenes, she does so without judging the child, but teaches the child through modeling, asking the child questions, or by redirecting the activity. Today when I was observing a classroom, a teacher reminded a child the proper use of an art material by asking him questions. In a Socratic way, the other students within hearing range were also remembering how they are to all to use the art materials. After the student answered the questions, the other children went quietly back to their own activities. The child who had either forgotten or decided to take a short cut, happily went to get the proper equipment and did not feel shamed or embarrassed.

The freedom allowed in the Montessori classroom, gives the child the opportunity to develop independence.  Montessori classrooms are designed for the child to do for themselves.  If they need something, they can go get it.  If something spills, they can clean it up.  When adults do things for children that they can do for themselves they are doing the child a disservice.

“We wait upon our children; and to serve them in this way is not less fatal than to do something that would tend to suffocate their own useful, spontaneous actions.” (p. 57, para. 4)

Montessori, M. (1972). Teaching methods employed in the children’s houses. In The discovery of the child (pp. 64-75) New York: Ballantine

Discovering the child

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“Because a child is constantly passing from a lower to higher state, his every passing minute is precious…. (H)e is fascinated by everything that contributes to his development and becomes indifferent to idle occupations. ” (p. 122, para. 4)

Thoughts after reading Part II: 19. Observations and Discoveries

Repetition of exercise, free choice, absence of toys, no rewards or punishments, silence activities, the dignity and self discipline of the child and early reading and writing are all mysteries encapsulated within the Montessori Method. When observers come into a Montessori classroom they are surprised by the order and the disciplined way that children carry out their task. Some ask “Where are the toys?” or “Why aren’t the children playing?”

In Maria’s classroom toys were available, but so were developmental materials. The toys were neglected and left un-chosen by the children in her classroom. Instead the children would seek activities that helped them grow and develop physically and mentally. Perhaps as adults we tend to put on children our own expectations of what activities children should enjoy. Given free choice to select what they want to do in a Montessori Classroom, allows the teacher to observe what the individual child is working on developmentally. These cues can give the teacher knowledge about the individual child to help guide them through their developmental journey.

The Montessori environment affected more than just the children. The dignity of the children transformed their families and homes. Children want to be part of the family, helping in the home. Their contributions help them feel valued and part of a community. The children from Maria’s Children’s House transformed their community. In spite of their poverty, “(b)roken pots began to disappear from the window sills. Window panes began to sparkle and geraniums began to blossom in the windows facing the courtyard (p. 129, para. 3).”

Montessori, M., & Costelloe, M. J. (1972). Introduction, Childhood: A Social -Problem. The secret of childhood (pp. 119-135). New York: Ballantine Books. (Original work published 1966)

The will of a child

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Montessori, M., & Costelloe, M. J. (1972). Introduction, Childhood: A Social -Problem. The secret of childhood (pp. 91-95). New York: Ballantine Books. (Original work published 1966)

Thoughts after reading PART 1: 14. The Substitution of the Personality

“The ability to move about under the guidance of reason and not simply in response to the sensible stimuli leads to concentration, and this fixation of the mind and activity upon a single object is a phenomenon of inner origin.” (p. 95, para. 2)

Children want to do what the adult is doing. They copy and imitate, even if they do not understand what they are imitating. Maria suggests that adults can impose their will on the child, acting through the child to accomplish tasks in the way the adult would want them accomplished. The better approach is to allow the child to develop their own will through inspiring them, instead of directing them.

If you have ever witnessed a Montessori teacher give a lesson, you will notice that she is very calm in her presentation and performs each motion in a purposeful manner at a pace that a child can easily begin practicing. Every little detail is shown to the child, from the grasp of a spoon to transferring the very last piece of grain. The goal of the teacher is to inspire the child to seek his own mastery of the skill, concentration, and self-discipline.

Many would expect that children are normally rambunctious and energetic; Montessori philosophy offers a different perspective. In Montessori classrooms, normalization of children comes about as a response to the classroom environment. Observers are often surprised at how quiet and serious the children seem when they are concentrating in the classroom. The normalized child is acting with their own will and self-driven inner discipline.