Allowing Inner Discipline and Independence to Develop

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“It is our object to train the child for activity, for work, for doing good, and not for immobility or passivity. It would seem to me that children are very well disciplined indeed when they can all move around in a room in a useful, intelligent, and free fashion without doing anything rude or unmannerly.” (p. 54 para. 3)

Thoughts after reading: 3. Teaching Methods Employed in the Children’s Houses

Many wonder how discipline works in a Montessori Classroom. It is hard for many to imagine an environment in which allows the child so much freedom which also maintains a sense of order.  The environment  and the philosophy used in a Montessori classroom helps the child develop inner discipline.  They learn to find joy in their own accomplishment instead of seeking attention and rewards from the adult.

When the Montessori teacher intervenes, she does so without judging the child, but teaches the child through modeling, asking the child questions, or by redirecting the activity. Today when I was observing a classroom, a teacher reminded a child the proper use of an art material by asking him questions. In a Socratic way, the other students within hearing range were also remembering how they are to all to use the art materials. After the student answered the questions, the other children went quietly back to their own activities. The child who had either forgotten or decided to take a short cut, happily went to get the proper equipment and did not feel shamed or embarrassed.

The freedom allowed in the Montessori classroom, gives the child the opportunity to develop independence.  Montessori classrooms are designed for the child to do for themselves.  If they need something, they can go get it.  If something spills, they can clean it up.  When adults do things for children that they can do for themselves they are doing the child a disservice.

“We wait upon our children; and to serve them in this way is not less fatal than to do something that would tend to suffocate their own useful, spontaneous actions.” (p. 57, para. 4)

Montessori, M. (1972). Teaching methods employed in the children’s houses. In The discovery of the child (pp. 64-75) New York: Ballantine

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