“When the time came to eat, tiny children would occupy their time with properly arranging their napkins, with looking at their knives, forks, and spoons in an effort to remember the exact way to hold and use them, or in assisting a companion smaller than themselves.” (p.178, para. 2)

Thoughts after reading Part II: Repercussions on Physical Health

Maria reminds us that animals know when to eat and even an infant has their own rhythm and pace when eating. Over-eating may be caused by psychic issues, “The child is attracted by the sight of food, which is judged only by the external sense of taste. The instinct of self-deprivation, the vital exterior force is weakened or disappears.” (p. 178, para. 2) The child who become part of the food preparation process and focus on the proper use of utensils or setting place settings has increased their interest in eating beyond the flavor of food.

Another issue that arises is the child that refuse to eat. We want to feed and take care of children and if our child does not want what we make for them, we may get upset or disappointed. We tell our children not to waste food or encourage them eat faster. In response, children put up self-defense mechanism regarding mealtime they may include extremely slow eating or even refusal to eat at all. If other areas of their life are under extreme adult dictatorship, they may be more apt to punish the adult through their mealtime actions.

Montessori, M., & Costelloe, M. J. (1972). Introduction, Childhood: A Social -Problem. The secret of childhood (177-181). New York: Ballantine Books. (Original work published 1966)