Montessori, M., & Costelloe, M. J. (1972). Introduction, Childhood: A Social-Problem. The secret of childhood (pp. 88-90). New York: Ballantine Books. (Original work published 1966)

Thoughts after reading PART 1: 13. Rhythm

“We take pleasure in associating with others whose rhythmical movements are like our own but are pained when we are forced to adapt ourselves to other rhythms.” (p. 89, para 2)

The rhythm in which Montessori is referring to is the cadence of performing activities or tasks.  She discusses the misalignment between the rhythm of the adult and the rhythm of the child.    She compares it to how one may interact with someone with a disability that moves at a slower pace.  We are often compelled to help them, even though they may be comfortable and content with their own effort.  Jumping in to help a child may not be as generous as the notion may seem at first glance.  This interruption may create a developmental obstacle for the child.

In a Montessori Classroom, you will notice that the teachers are not quick to jump in and assist a child with their work.  They observe from the sidelines and take note of their progress; much like a scientist observes an experiment.  When a child asks for help, the teacher is careful not to take over and often models the action involved, encouraging the child to do the task for themselves. The teacher is patient and kind in their methods. Although, the final result may not be perfect, the process of performing the action and the practice of the motions required from the work are valued.  The result is a confident child who will continue to develop his independence.