Montessori, M., & Costelloe, M. J. (1972). Introduction, Childhood: A Social -Problem. The secret of childhood (pp. 76-79). New York: Ballantine Books. (Original work published 1966)

Thoughts after reading PART 1: 11. Obstacles to Growth, Walking

“An adult walks to reach some external goal and he consequently heads straight for it…. An infant, on the other hand, walks to perfect his own proper functions, and consequently his goal is something creative within himself.” (p. 78, para 2)

Children need to be able to walk on their own at their own pace, practicing and perfecting their newly learned skill and developing balance.  As a adults, it is easy to make accommodations to insure that our child can keep up with our pace.  Although this is more convenient, the child could achieve so much more if we would allow them the opportunity to walk at their own pace, resting when they need to rest and exploring as they desire.  Caging up our children or securing them in strollers may protect them; however, they need to be able to develop.

Both of my children were early walkers.  At 9 months old, my children were already breaking free from limited movement and searching to explore their surroundings by foot.  This can be a scary time for parents, it was for me!  The child can reach more things, get into more things and move faster than a crawl!  As they improve their skill they get harder to keep up with!  Still they are still light enough to swoop into your protective arms and easy to fit into a stroller. We want so much for them to be safe from danger.

We don’t want to teach our children to be helpless, when they need to be developing muscle movement and balance.  Every day our Toddlers in our Toddler program go for a walk with their teachers.  The walk is not at the teacher’s pace, but at children’s pace.  They get to pause and look at the ducks in the creek.  If they see something interesting they can show their teacher and friends.  The goal is not to get from point A to point B, it is for the child to practice movement, balance and enjoy the journey.  As a parent, you can look at the walk through your own child’s eyes.  Slow down, enjoy the journey.  These precious moments go by so quickly and you can see wondrous things if you take the time to follow the child.